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Raising him will very likely be quite difficult and stressful.
It will be life changing if I choose him as a partner, for me and my kids.
I know my kids are young, but they will be independent adults one day.
Am I being selfish or shallow in my fear of this undertaking? Thanks for asking such an honest and challenging question, Carol. A man is allowed to not want to date a 400lb woman if he doesn’t find her attractive.
Doing so before you've even determined for yourself that this will be a long-term relationship is unfair to the kids.
On one hand, you can hardly contain your enthusiasm for your new love interest.
If it weren’t for his son I would continue the relationship and see where it leads.
But I am having a lot of anxiety about the possibility of committing to him and his child long term.
" Peter Sheras, a clinical psychologist at the University of Virginia, and the author of "The commitment is the most important piece because, when there's commitment, that becomes obvious to the kids."Being true to yourself and your partner is key.
Not every dating relationship reaches the level of commitment that necessitates including the kids.